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Reflecting on trips with his                                                Courageous and unsentimental to
       partner Rachel, he wrote:                                                   the very end, Dave Stringer was
                                                                                   a very special human being. His
       “This year’s flying has been                                                honesty, decency and
       amazing.  First class (thank you                                            unflinching courage continue to
       Avios) to Boston and back, a                                                inspire all who read his words.
       beautiful experience.  Feeling
       looked after in the BA Boston                                                 “There’s no doubt
       lounge, a particularly nice feeling.                                           in my head that
       The £130 a bottle champagne,
       also very welcome…Grand Siecle                                                     doing what
       something or other.                                                                I’ve done...
                                                                                         has been the
       Business class on Iberia to           thinner), finding light relief in
       Santiago with exceptionally           unlikely moments such as their              right course
       attentive service.  Regular rioja     visit to Oxford:                             of action…
       top-ups. Strange Spanish-style
       food.  And perhaps the most                    “Next up,                      I got it right”.
       comfortable I’ve ever felt on a       Walsall at home on
       plane. Santiago to Easter Island                                            As Chris says, “We’ve all been
       was also done in business class on           Wednesday.                     overwhelmed with messages
       LATAM. Then back to South West            Does it get any                   about his blog and it seems to
       USA. Outwards with British              bigger than this?”                  have touched and helped so many
       Airways. Rachel inadvertently                                               people”.
       queue-jumping to be told she’d
       been upgraded to first class.         “The game ended goalless. The         Last word to Dave himself:
       Brilliant moment.”                    quality wasn’t great but somehow      “Looking up at the night sky
                                             I found it highly entertaining. Partly   triggered more memories of my
                                             due to the Oxford fan in the
       Dave’s mobility was restricted as                                           travels.  The Atacama Desert in
       his cancer spread into his back,      section next to us getting            Chile’s north where I’d witnessed
       making it difficult to walk. He was   unbelievably angry. When an           the planet’s clearest night sky
       also afflicted by Bell’s palsy; the   Oldham player escaped a red           with Chris.  A night on a ranch in
       right side of his face drooped, his   card for a wild high challenge, this   Utah where I got a real kick from
       eye wouldn’t close, and “keeping      bloke’s head nearly joined the        Rachel’s excitement at seeing the
       liquids from slipping out of my       International Space Station in        Milky Way in all its glory.
       mouth is an art I’ve developed to     orbit above the planet.  He wasn’t
       avoid looking like a dribbling fool”.   happy at all! Next up, Walsall at
       Yet he kept on travelling, writing,   home on Wednesday. Does it get
       and living life to the full.          any bigger than this?”

                                             Ultimately, Oldham couldn’t avoid
       A keen football fan, he devoted
       much of his time and energy to        relegation, finishing just a point
       planning trips to watch Oldham        behind local rivals Rochdale - and
       Athletic home and away, invariably    one place from safety.
       accompanied by son Chris.                                                   There’s no doubt in my head that
                                             Throughout 2018, as his condition     doing what I’ve done, going where

       Oldham’s fortunes were also at        progressed, Dave’s blog focused       I’ve gone and spending the money
       a low ebb, as they struggled for      increasingly on the day to day        to do it has been the right course
       form throughout the season.           realities of treatments and hospital   of action… I got it right”.
       Undaunted, Dave and Chris             visits – and financial planning for
       followed them through thick and       his family.                           That you did, Dave.                  INSPIRE 2018
       thin (often more like thin and                                              Thank you for everything.

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